FOOD
In the interest of
good dietetics we request that no gum, candy
or food be sent with the campers. Please help us avoid problems
in this regard by explaining this request to your son before
he departs for camp.
NO
PACKAGE POLICY
We feel that packages interfere with the camp experience and that the focus on them leads to unintentional competition within the cabin groups and sometimes even hurt feelings. Therefore, “care packages” are only accepted in the event of a camper birthday. All others will be returned to sender. Any costs will be charged to the camper's store account. Please tell family and friends! NECESSARY items such as a camper's forgotten shoes, tennis racquet, extra glasses, etc., may be sent to your child c/o Hank and Townsend Birdsong. Any medications should be sent to the attention of the Camp Nurse. Flat envelopes for sending such items as a magazine or newspaper articles should be less than $3.25 postage. Envelopes over this postage amount will be returned to sender.
ACTIVITY
CHOICES
Please talk with your camper about the activities in which he may want to participate. After lunch on the first day of camp he will get to visit activity areas, learn about the rules, opportunities, and trips involved. He will sign up for his activities on the first night of camp. This allows him to start his activities the first full day of camp. Be sure to complete and return the riding registration form by May 15th.
CLOTHING
& EQUIPMENT
High Rocks does not specify a camp uniform. We recommend plain, durable clothes that are washable rather than requiring dry cleaning. Please do not send expensive clothes, or new, unwashed clothes. We try our best, but camp life is not easy on designer clothing! Laundry is a weekly service, at no additional charge to campers. If an item of clothing should not go into a dryer, it is the camper's responsibility not to send it to the laundry. It is important that all items of clothing and equipment be plainly and indelibly marked with the camper's name. Sharpies work great or use a high quality clothing label. Be sure to write down your son’s full name and not just initials. Please label everything, including shoes, towels, sleeping bags, equipment, etc.
Our climate is apt to include some cool weather, especially in June; our days are usually mild, with nights requiring two or three blankets. Some boys, especially the younger ones, have occurrences of enuresis (bed-wetting) at camp. The change in climate can be one affecting factor. If a boy has a known or anticipated pattern of enuresis, we request that he bring a protective sheet, and also suggest that he bring at least two extra bed sheets. It would also be helpful if you would notify us in advance.
Personal camping gear should include a suitable pack (we recommend a pack with a frame, not daypack or book bag type), and a lightweight sleeping bag with a stuff sack. The sleeping bag should have synthetic fiber fill like Polarguard or Quallofill. Down-filled or cotton-filled sleeping bags are not recommended. There is little backpacking in the two week session, so don't worry too much about high tech gear for that session. Basic backpacks are available at camp for all sessions at no additional cost. A coated nylon poncho or raincoat will be necessary at camp. Thin plastic ponchos or raincoats will not survive even the first rainstorm. Gore-Tex or other waterproof-breathable rain gear is another suitable option, but is more expensive.
Campers do not need and should not bring a knife or axe to camp.
Boots or hard-soled tie shoes with heels are needed for horseback riding. A hiking boot can double as a riding boot if it has a good exposed heel that helps the shoe stay in the stirrup.
If your son is dependent on eyeglasses, it is best to send a spare pair to camp in case one set gets lost. These can be kept in the office if you wish.
There are several excellent sources for equipment. From personal knowledge we recommend:
Diamond Brand handles several good lines of equipment and is located near High Rocks. Let us know if we can be of further help in planning your equipment or clothing needs. An additional list is available below for printing (or in your parent pack) for attaching to the inside top of the footlocker to help your camper know what is packed.
Campers SHOULD NOT BRING any food, candy, lighters, matches, knives, water guns, balloons, aerosol or spray cans, trading cards, computers, electronic games, televisions, video players, cell phones, or wireless devices. Electronic items that are allowed include: digital still cameras, Kindle readers, and music players like IPods and other mp3 players. These items may NOT have any videos or games on them and should only be used with headphones. Do not bring external speakers to camp. IPods and other devices with videos, games, or wireless capabilities are not allowed. Camp does not assume responsibility for lost articles.
For shipment of clothes
and bedding we recommend a footlocker and duffel bag. Both can
be checked on plane tickets. Please keep
the trunk/footlocker size to no larger than 14 inches high and
36 inches wide. The company listed below makes high quality trunks that will last for many summers.
There are many less expensive versions, including plastic-style trunks now on the market that will work for one or two summers.
CLOTHING AND EQUIPMENT PACK LIST
We recommend that
you use this list as a guide for the clothes and equipment that
you bring to camp. All clothing, including shoes, athletic equipment
such as tennis racket, fishing gear, etc., should be clearly
marked with your camper's name.
- 8 T-shirts
- 1 sweatshirt
- 2 long-sleeved synthetic tops (Under Armour Coldgear, mid-weight Capilene, or mid-weight Duofold/polypro)
- 8 pair undershorts
- 8 pair socks
- 2 pair hiking socks (not cotton)
- 5 pair long pants (jeans or khakis)
- 5 pair shorts
- 2 bathing suits
- 2 pair pajamas
- 1 fleece jacket
- 1 coated nylon poncho or raincoat (not thin plastic)
- 2 pair tennis shoes
- 1 pair Teva/ Chaco style sandals or other water shoes to get wet (with heel strap, not flip-flops). Old tennis shoes work well. Crocs do not work…
- 1 pair hiking shoes (broken in), preferably lace high top, with heel for riding
- 2 sets of sheets (single bed)
- 1 pillow
- 2 pillow cases
- 2 blankets
- 3 towels
- 3 washcloths
- 1 book bag / daypack (used for day trips)
- 2 Nalgene type water bottles; 32oz. or canteens (1 if not backpacking)
- 1 large bike-style water bottle for mountain biking
- Flashlight or headlamp (normal size for ease in backpacking)
- 1 lightweight sleeping bag (not cotton or down filled) rated around 30°F
- 1 sleeping bag stuff sack (to fit sleeping bag)
- 1 laundry bag
- 1 roll-on or lotion bug repellent (no sprays)
- toilet articles - comb, toothbrush, toothpaste, shampoo, etc.
- small ditty bag (to hold toiletries)
The following items are optional. They can be helpful for certain activities, but are not required:
- Backpack (either internal or external frame)
- Camp has packs that can be borrowed
- Closed cell sleeping pad for backpacking
- Hydration Packs like a Camelbak are recommended for mountain biking
- Tennis Racquet
- Can of Tennis Balls
- Fishing Pole and gear; single hook lures only please
- Climbing Shoes
- Ping Pong Paddle
- Disc Golf Discs
- Soccer Shin Guards
- Camera
- Writing Paper and pens
- Stamped, pre-addressed envelopes
For Shipment of clothes and bedding, we recommend a footlocker and duffle bag. Both can be checked on plane tickets, however, we recommend shipping by UPS or Federal Express.
PREPARING
YOUR SON FOR GOING AWAY
You can do much to prepare your son for going away to camp, especially if it is his first camp experience. Talking honestly with your son about what to expect can ease the transition from home to camp. Many boys expect camp to be fun all the time. While your son should expect to have fun, you can tell him that he will at times feel many different emotions: elation at discovering new friends, fear of confronting a new situation, disappointment when a game or project hasn't gone well, and even sadness to leave friends at the end of a session.
Homesickness may occur, especially if your son is young or living away for the first time. Homesickness is neither a dislike of camp nor evidence of camper maladjustment. It is normal. Discussing this with your son and letting him know that this is a common feeling will make it easier to deal with should it occur. If it does, the most appropriate action is to let your son stay at camp, except in very unusual cases. Our camp staff members are trained to work with homesick boys and within a day or two most boys have completely recovered. If you receive a letter that is less than positive at the beginning of camp, don't worry too much -homesickness is usually over by the time the letter reaches home.
In your letters to camp, it may be helpful to ask about experiences at camp rather than to dwell on happenings at home. Try to put your own feelings of separation into proper perspective, and then write your son an encouraging response. Express your confidence in your son's ability to cope and that the staff is there to help. It is usually a good idea to avoid making references about how much you will miss your son and it helps if parents avoid talking about what they will be doing while their son is away. If you receive a letter that is cause for concern, don't hesitate to notify us by phone. Since gaining independence from family is a developmental task that all must face at some point or other, camp can be a positive step in the life of a camper.
SHIPPING
TRUNKS
Due to the continuing unpredictability of airlines and luggage handling at airports, we strongly recommend that trunks be shipped to High Rocks by UPS or other commercial carrier. Please note that UPS does not cover damages to a trunk/duffel unless it is in a separate container; only the “contents” of what is being shipped will be insured. We will ship trunks and duffels home at your request. The exact cost is obtained from the carrier and the charges are billed to the camper’s account and collected on Closing Day.
Shipped baggage should be tagged with the High Rocks address (c/o Camp High Rocks, 8551 Greenville Hwy., Cedar Mountain, NC 28718). The United Parcel Service delivers to camp; we would be more than happy to receive your son's trunk early by UPS and have it in his cabin when he arrives.
OPENING
DAY
If you are driving to camp, we ask that you plan on arriving between 9:00 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. You will be met halfway up the camp road, and given some information about the check-in process. We may ask you to wait a bit until the upper parking lot is less full before going on up and unloading. At the top of the camp road in our main parking lot, we will unload your vehicle, and walk you and your son to the camp office, where you will check in. A staff member will then help you check in at the infirmary (leaving any medicines with the nurse) and then will walk you and your son to his cabin to meet his cabin counselor. Your son's trunk and other belongings will be transported to the cabin by the time you arrive to meet the counselor.
It is certainly fine to help get your son settled in a bit; however, we do ask that you stay only a very short time (15 minutes at most). First, it is easier for the boys to adjust to camp if the transition is quick; the less you linger, the easier it will be. Secondly, we have exceedingly limited parking, and will need your car's space for another incoming family. We hope you do not mind waiting to take a camp tour until Parent's Day (the closing day for the session). By that point, you will have your own personal tour guide with lots of exciting and unique stories to tell you about what he did at camp! |